Here are several of my TRUE e-Harmony adventures I experienced while searching for my true love! You've all seen the comercials from the on line dating service e-Harmony, and many of you may have wondered what it was all about and if it worked or didn't work. Well, I am a real wittness, to tell you at least what happened to me in real life! Unlike on Adult FriendFinder, where you have people sending you e-mails saying Let's get together tomorrow, e-Harmony is a process thar takes time. AFTER, you are matched, there are several question and answer periods that take days to complete, and then there is an open period where you can e-mail back and forth. Finally one or the other of you requests a phone number, and then after phone talk, maybe a date is set up. AND SO with each of these women, all of that was done, and we were at the first date stage and here is what happened! 1. Martha: She was an average 48 year old woman not fat, but by no means skinny. She was a fun date, and talked a lot, but not too much. After the date we were back at my place and before I knew it, we were in bed together.

I'd have to call her the queen of oral sex, because at least for me, she gave the best playjobs ever, and she was a good play as well. All might have been great with Martha, EXCEPT, She had just lost her husband of seven years to an accident, less than a year earlier, and oh my God, his name had been Steven too my name. It turned out to be all too creepy for me, and it was easy to see, that she was just looking for a quick and easy replacement! 2. Jennifer: She was the next, and again everything seemed perfect between us. The night of our date, I picked her up at her house, and we had dinner. After, we went back to her place, and suddenly the lights went out a power failure. After discussing with her neighbors that it was indeed a power failure and not her lack of bill paying, we lit candles, and cuddled on the couch. She touched me way before I touched her. and she actually had me near orgasm, just from rubbing my length through my pants, before she said, OOPS, guess it's time you go! She was the ultimate length-tease! NOW, before you think this is all about sex, I can soft placeure you it isn't! With e-Harmony, before you even get a chance to e-mail speak, you already pretty much know what your potential partner thinks about sex, and after actually talking a few times, all of that is in the open, or so you hope.

ALSO, this is not about teenagers dating.

You are both mature adults, and nine times out of ten, from what I have found, one or both of you is already divorced or widowed, and so sex is a real and logical part of a relationship you BOTH seek! 4. Jennifer: MY GOD .. and not in a good way as an all around gal, but still Oh My GOD! She was a blonde, and nice body. We had a great time at dinner, and then were back at my place at her request.

I offered her a drink, and all I had was wine or beer. She then proceeded to pull a whole bar out of the trunk of her car! Vodka, and Scotch, or my choice of Rum or Gin! I settled on Vodka Martini's. After my two and her six, she ripped off her clothes, and we played! I don't mean we made love we played! She humped, and bucked and moaned and groaned, but it was well, like playing a damp rag! 5. Shannon: I was ready to give up, and actually SHE was MY last attempt, before I moved on and tried another method! She and I clicked through the questions. I'd been there and done that. She and I clicked through the e-mails, been there, done that. We clicked on the phone been there and done that too, and then: In person she was shy at first and so was I. We warmed up together, and both felt comfortable.

Back at my place we talked a lot more, even before the first kiss, but after the first kiss She wasn't crazy or demanding, or, well, she was perfect! We made love, and the we played, animalistic playing, and then we made love again. Every inch of her body tasted good, and she told me the same thing ....... AND SO ... Whether it is e-harmony or here, give it time, and you might just find!!!!